Asia Bibi Case should be an Eye-opener for the Hardliners

Asia Bibi was charged for Blasphemy by the Islamic Hardliners in Pakistan
Asia Bibi have already spent 8 years in Jail now acquitted by the Supreme Court of Pakistan 

The Asia Bibi Blasphemy Case


Asia Bibi, a Pakistani Christian woman, mother of four, from Punjab province,   Aasiya Noreen (Urdu: آسیہ نورین‬‎ — Āsiyaah Naurīn [ˈɑːsiɑː nɔːˈriːn], born c. 1971;[1] better known as آسیہ بی بی‬ Asia Bibi). Asia was convicted of blasphemy in 2010 and sentenced to hang after she was accused of defiling the name of the Prophet Mohammad during an argument the year before with a group of Muslim women with whom she had been harvesting berries. The argument began the other women had objected and refused to drink water from the bowl that a non-Muslim woman touched, referencing the caste system in Pakistan. Subsequently she was accused of insulting Islamic Prophet Mohammad, but Asia denies the charge. She was arrested and imprisoned in November, 2010.  Interestingly a Sheikhupura judge sentenced her to death by hanging. The verdict had received worldwide attention.

Twist of the Case


The complainants had heated arguments with Asia Bibi, which she called the case was a matter of women who did not like her. The case could be reasonably suspected of having dragged her to the court out of malice.

It should be noted that the first and formal police complaint was lodged at-least five days after the incident which added further suspicions that evidence could have been fabricated.

And as if that were not enough, some glaring disparities emerged in the disposition of different witnesses about the specifics of the actual incident.

As in many countries, Pakistan's criminal justice system puts the burden of proof on the prosecution. It applies strict rules of evidence to ensure the case is proved beyond all reasonable doubt.
The slightest deficiency anywhere along the process translates into a benefit for the defendant. But. for eight long years, this was not what happened in Asia's case.

The Supreme Court of Pakistan Verdict


On 31st October, 2018, Pakistan's Supreme Court overturned the conviction of Asia Bibi, who was in a death row for eight years for blasphemy, a land mark verdict that sparked nationwide protests, death threats from hardliners and cheers from human rights advocates.

It is clear from the Wednesday's verdict , the case ought not to have delayed, traveled beyond the trial court stage in Sheikhupura district back in 2010. Asia Bibi always maintained her innocence, but has spent most of the past eight years in solitary confinement.

Hardliners protesting against Asia Bibi case verdict in Pakistan
Hardliners protesting against the verdict of Asia Bibi Blasphemy Case across Pakistan
The apex court, in a three member bench led by chief justice Saqib Nisar, issued the verdict on Wednesday Morning, three weeks after they had reached the decision.
The delay followed threats by blasphemy campaigners to hold protests.
In the his judgement Nisar said
Keeping in mind the evidence produced by the prosecution, against the alleged blasphemy committed by the appellant, the prosecution has categorically failed to prove its case beyond reasonable doubt.
Asia Bibi, now can walk free from jail in Sheikhupura, near Lahore, immediately if not wanted in connection with any other case, Nissar mentioned.

Tensions and Aftermath of the Case


In January, 2011, a PPP leader and Governor of Pakistan's most powerful province Punjab - Salman Taseer was gunned down by one of his religiously inclined bodyguards. As Taseer had visited Asia Bibi in jail, sympathized with her and expressed a desire to reform blasphemy law.

A couple of months later, Pakistan's Minister for Minority Affairs, Shahbaz Bhatti was shot dead for making similar remarks.

These incidents put Asia's case on the anvil of the religious lobby, with anti-blasphemy vigilant groups vowing to draw her blood or that of the judges who would dare let her go.

It is obvious that lower court judges are less protected and more exposed to threats from vigilant groups - which is why most blasphemy cases end in convictions at the trial stage - a majority of the cases reaching the high court level are quashed, due to absence of strong evidence.

Asia Bibi facing death threat from Islamic Hardliners
Asia Bibi Acquitted but facing death threat from the Hardliners


Asia Bibi was the first woman who was given death sentence under the blasphemy law According to officials, Asia Bibi might be flown out of Pakistan due to threat to her life. It is not clear where she will go as several countries, including Canada have offered asylum to her.

The timing of her release has not been shares due to security reasons.          
 
The blasphemy laws were promulgated by former military dictator Ziaul Haq in 1980s. A person convicted under these laws is given death sentence. While reading out the judgement Nisar said,
Her conviction is set aside and she is to be relieved forthwith... Tolerance is the basic principle of Islam.
There is tight security in the capital Islamabad and other parts of Pakistan due to ongoing agitation by the Hardliner Islamic Groups. Angry Protests erupted in Pakistan following the verdict.
             
The Red Zone in capital Islamabad, where the Supreme Court is located gas been sealed off by the police and paramilitary forces have been deployed to keep protesters away from the court.

Punjab, the country's most populous province is on high alert and its Home Department banned all kinds of public gatherings until November' 10.  Tehreek-e-Labbaik (TLP) Pakistan, an Islamic Political Party is leading the protest in Lahore where large number of activists gathered on the Mall Road. Protests are also being held in Karachi and other cities by groups linked with religious parties.
                                  
 forgotten
“O mankind, your transgression 
(injustice, evildoing)
 is only against yourself!”
 (Quran 10:23)

However, the Prime Minister of  Pakistan Imran Khan is taking strong stand against the protesters. He warns protesters in tough words
I ask these elements (protestors) to avoid confronting the State. But if they opted to do so, the State will fulfill its responsibilities.
We will protect life and property of people...We will not let them (protestors) involve in vandalism or close down the roads 


Asia Bibi's plea was not heard during her prosecution


Asia denied that she had committed blasphemy and said that she has been framed and accused by her neighbor to settle an old dispute in November 2010.

Asia Bibi victim of Blasphemy laws of Pakistan
Asia Bibi cried alone


With the verdict Asia became shocked for victimization. Almost illiterate and a farm worker and a mother of four children lost all hope. She described the day of her sentencing as
I cried alone, putting my head in my hands. I can no longer bear the sight of people full of hatred, applauding the killing of a poor farm worker. I no longer see them, but I still hear them, the crowd who gave the judge a standing ovation, saying: "Kill her, kill her! Allahu Akbar!" The court house is invaded by a euphoric horde who break down the doors, chanting: "Vengeance for the holy prophet. Allah is great!" I was then thrown like an old rubbish sack into the van... I had lost all humanity in their eyes 

 forgotten
"Kind speech and forgiveness
 is better than charity
 followed by injury.”
 (Qur’an 2:263)


That time her husband Ashiq Masih announced that he planned to appeal the verdict, which has to be upheld by the Lahore High Court.  A month later, Salmaan Taseer, the governor of Punjab who investigated the affair for the President Asif Ali Zardari, stated that Noreen would most likely be pardoned if the High Court did not suspend the sentence. Zardari was poised to grant pardon, but Lahore High Court issued a stay order against potential Presidential pardon, which remains in force till date.Court transcripts show numerous inconsistencies in the evidence presented and reporters say they dare not repeat Bibi's testimony lest they also be accused of blasphemy  

 forgotten
“Forgive and let go.
 Don’t you like it if Allah forgives you?
 Allah is Most Forgiving, 
Most Merciful” 
(Qur’an 24 : 22)

Polarization


Asia Bibi's death sentence drew international outrage. and strong condemnation from non-governmental organizations defending her as well as human rights group such as Amnesty International and Human Rights Watch who saw the blasphemy laws as a form of religious persecution and called for them to be abolished.
 forgotten
“Never think that God is unaware
 of what evildoers do.
 He only delays them (their punishment)
 for a Day when eyes will
 stare (in horror)”.
  (Quran 14:42)

Amnesty International researcher Rabia Mehmood says that one of the reasons of Asia Bibi case has become so polarizing and controversial is the Pakistani Government's failure to take

effective measures to curb the campaign of hate and violence incited by certain groups in the country following her conviction, in fact the state has shown immense tolerance for the narratives of hate 

She previously highlighted a tweet by a media organization close to TLP, which last year led to anti-blasphemy protests, warning the court to

think carefully before taking the decision

Mehmood  adds

We can only hope that (the Asia Bibi case) becomes a watershed moment when it comes to blasphemy laws in Pakistan 

A verdict in Asia Bibi's favor spelled

out a message of hope and will be a step in addressing human rights abuses, religiously motivated discrimination and violence targeted at religious minorities and even Muslims who are accused of committing blasphemy 

Asia Bibi's case has become rallying call across the world. Catholic charity Aid to the Church in Need (ACN) led prayers for Asia Bibi's release last week in the UK, at ceremony attended by her husband Ashiq Masih and daughter Eisham Ashiq.

Father Emmanuel Yousaf said in a statement from the group

We have prayed 10 years now for our sister, Asia, and I am confident that our prayers will be heard, and the judgment will go in favor of Asia, her family and the entire Pakistani Christian community

In her 2012 book Get Me Out of Here Asia Bibi included a letter to her family urging them to

 keep courage or faith in Jesus Christ
         

Stories of 4 Human Being - They Are Differently Old By Their Intentions

When Age is just a number
Photo by Rachel on Unsplash

Age is just a number


I am sure and I know that there are many old Men and Women feels age is just a number and live their life as they were in their young age, mentally, and yes physically there are marks of the time they passed. It is the law of nature.

In the JAMA research study Feeling Old vs Being OldAssociations Between Self-perceived Age and Mortality -   it was found that older people typically feel younger than their chronological age, and it is thought those who feel younger than their actual age have reduced mortality. To confirm this relationship the study was conducted in a large representative population sample, and to understand the role of existing health problems, poor physical function, depression, socio-demographic factors, social isolation, impaired cognitive function and health behaviors in explaining the association.
The results proclaim that

The mechanisms underlying these associations merit further investigation. Possibilities include a broader set of health behaviors than we measured (such as maintaining a healthy weight and adherence to medical advice), and greater resilience, sense of mastery, and will to live among those who feel younger than their age. Self-perceived age has the potential to change, so interventions may be possible. Individuals who feel older than their actual age could be targeted with health messages promoting positive health behaviors and attitudes toward aging.

There are more studies, on the subject. available all over the world. In the last couple of weeks the stories of four individuals are shared many times on the social network and people talk about them. They make a renewed sensation around the social network.
Come let us see them.

109-year old Helen Self


Helen recently celebrated her birthday, which was reported by The Washington Post, in the restaurant of Montana Club.
Helen Self at her birthday dinner
Helen Self at her birthday dinner on Aug 17, 2018 - P C : The Washington Post
It is learn that Helen started going to Montana Club since she was 99. Since then she celebrated her every birthday there. The Club offered a discount equal percentage of her age. Yes it was 109 percent discount meaning the restaurant actually paid her to eat there.

Nick Alonzo, the owner of the restaurant handed over the dollar and change. In return Self gave a kiss on his cheek. And she told smilingly,
I will comeback next year. Don't tell his (Nick's) wife I kissed him.
Alonzo recalled when she paid second time when she turned 100 years. Self got 100 percent discount.
The Washington Post reports at that time Alonzo laughed with her and told her
Next year I am going to have to start paying you !
And since then exactly that is happening.  

Shirley Gunter, 86 , daughter of Helen said that Helen has been a widow for 18 years and had two children but one of them had died before she turned 100 years. She has seven grandchildren, six great-grandchildren and four great-great grandchildren, with another expected shortly.
Self weighs 110 pounds, is in excellent health except some hearing loss. Very rarely she uses wheelchair and refuses a cane. Gunter says when her mother walks she holds onto whoever is next to her. 
Gunter confirms that her mother doesn't take any medicine and that her doctor says,
She only come in here once a year to let me know she's alive !.

In a phone call with The Washington Post, Helen said she attributes her longevity to not overeating and to her laid-back approach to life.
Her message is
Take life as it comes and don’t get too excited about anything,  
This, too, shall pass. If you’re upset, just get down and scrub the floor

99-year old Luther Younger


Luther is from Rochester, New York, walks 6 miles round-trip everyday to visit his ailing wife  in the hospital. His story was first reported Spectrum News Rochester in August 2018, since then it gain widespread media attention.

Luther's wife Waverlee is paralyzed and has suffered from brain cancer since 2009.
Younger a Korean War Veteran is said to walk everywhere, according to his family members.
Everyday he slings his backpack over his shoulder and walks to the hospital and sometime in the journey he starts running to reduce the trek time.

Lutheta, daughter of the couple told in an interview with CBS News that both her parents remained extremely strong. Over the past nine years, Waverlee has been in and out of the hospital, sometimes for months at a time. Luther stayed by her side, walking to the hospital to visit everyday and often sleeping there, sometimes on the floor.          
  

True lasting love does exist


Luther reportedly told that while visiting hospital he could have take a ride from her daughter or some neighbors or from a friend, and or take the bus to hospital, but he doesn't want to. Rather he says
I got a wife. I don't want to wait on the bus. I want to go up there to see my wife.
His daily walk is not about proving himself as strong, rather he reiterated that he likes to walk because it clears his mind and he says he's always done hard labor for work. Now it is about proving his love for Waverlee.
She is a beautiful lady and she treats me as a person is supposed to be ... she made a man out of me. That's why I love her, because she's tough. She's not weak ... That's the kind of woman I want            

Six miles everyday round-trip walk is not easy for many people half of his age. But when a person have walked through life with someone for over 55 years, what's another six miles. Everyday after seeing off Waverlee, Luther becomes sad, but that makes him stronger for next day, rain or shine, he will be walking to see his love again.       
         
The 3:25 m .video shows his life is committed and personified to love.


91-year old Ye Lianping


Ye has been a teacher for 40 years.  He has devoted his life to teaching in East China's Anhui province. He is still teaching after his retirement  offers free tutoring for last 16 years.

Ye Lianping in the class room
Ye Lianping

Ye Lianping volunteers to help students learn English. The local government helped renovate a storage area into two rooms where students can finish homework, read books and play chess.
Ye said many rural children live with their grandparents after their parents migrated to work in other cities. Despite the generous support for students , Ye is known for his thrift and lives in a shabby cottage built 30 years ago.

89-year old Sharanavasavaraj Bisarahalli


A freedom fighter lives in Koppal, Karnataka in India is setting an example for the people who had to leave their education for different reasons.
     


Bisarahalli holds a degree in Law and master's degree from Karnataka University in Dharwad and Hampi Kannada University.
He now aspires to complete his Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) degree . On his mission he says,

I had attempted the exam last year as well, but failed. This time, it went well and I am confident of clearing the exam.

He also plans to write a book on literature and Kannada poems.




Final Thought


Every stereotype has an element of truth in it. So has age. As we age day by day, we often have the feeling that we belong to anymore and that our age is the principal barrier to growth and success, particularly in our professional lives. It seems to us to be a major obstruction as we already view ourselves as the 'has beens' instead of being the 'wannabees'. This, however, is a myth which is easily understandable when it comes to breaking down  age barriers and ultimately changing the world. Jackie Ioyner-Kersee quotes
Age is no barrier. It's a limitation you put on your mind.
A barrier actually becomes a barrier when we think of it as one. For isn't it said that when we let the mind go, the body automatically follows. Yes age becomes an obstacle if for some reason we become medically unfit and unable to take up various or certain responsibilities. But as long as the body permits, there is no reason why the mind shouldn't cooperate with it. After all, it's the mind that rules the body and not vice-versa. And when mind is driven by soul there nothing appears as barrier.





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Shiuli the fulcrum of The Movie October- A Tale of a Highly Sensitive Person

Nyctanthes arbor-tristis, the night-flowering jasmine or parijat
Shiuli Flowers

The night-flowering jasmine is named in biology as Nyctanthes Arbor-Tritis, known in different names across the regions of South Asia and Southeast Asia. 

We are considering here it's bengali name Shiuli to take it forward. Shiuli flowers have five to eight white petals arranged above a vibrant orange tube like a pinwheel. Shiuli is highly fragrant, open at night, and the surrounding area become smoothly and intensely aromatic. These flowers drop down from the branches at the first rays of sunlight.
Often the Shiuli Tree is called as Tree of Sorrow because of its extra-ordinary character, the scientific name Arbor-Tritis also means 'Sad-Tree'.

Middle month of the season of Shiuli blossoming is October, gives the birth of a story about Shiuli and Dan.

October


We prefer pleasure over pain, happiness over sadness, positive experiences over negative ones, so and so forth. Often we also face a dilemma that is negative experience actually make us happier in the long run ? The movie October says a lot, without saying lot.

Varun Dhawan in October
Varun Dhawan as Danish Walia aka Dan

The movie suggests that yes, we can use those tough experiences to build ourselves up instead letting them control and  tear us down. In fact any experience like a fight with a romantic partner or losing a loved one - has the potential for helping us gain a greater sense of meaning in our life.
Primarily, yes it can be marked that October is the story about love constructed from Dan's simple and innocent world-view and Shiuli's silent , stoic stares.
But calling October only a love story, we will miss to its resilient tone. It is the battle of life from various angles, it's about how far we can go for the things we believe in. It is about main character's endless search of one thing that define himself.
Hotel management intern Dan is very careless in his attitude, he does not like his job, and has a strained relationship with most of his colleagues, seniors. Dan's story is heart wrenching and nursed notions that no one expects anything from him including his parents.
Dan's life takes a giant leap when his fellow trainee Shiuli Iyer accidentally falls from the Hotel's roof

Banita Sandhu played as Shiuli Iyer in October
Banita Sandhu as Shiuli

on New Year's Eve and eventually when Dan knows that Shiuli's last words before falling was
"Where is Dan ?"
This words actually make a twist into Dan's mind.
Dan and Shiuli forge an unlikely bond in the most trying of circumstances . The plot is gentle unfolding of love and loss and longing, and takes its time to getting to where it's headed. In slow rhythm of Dan's life, romance opens up in low-key and unusual speaking glances rather than high pitched words and drama.
              

Dan the Highly Sensitive Person


It is not until much later that we see in the very first appearance of Dan's character and his reactions after Shiuli's accident that he is a highly sensitive person and then things finally make sense.

A slower, simpler pace of life

Highly Sensitive persons (HSP) process information deeply, and may move little slower than others and also experience the world little differently than others. Images of violence or stories of heartbreak can be excruciating to them. Sudden impact of any thing like loud noises, news or busy schedules have the power to rattle HSP's profoundly.
They may need time to do certain tasks, like getting out of the house in the morning. They may take a little longer time to make decisions, such as which item to buy at the grocery store, because they are taking in not just the mountain of choices, but also nutrition information, price and how they feel about chicken noodle soup. Suddenly their mind flashes to chickens being cooped up in tiny cages and then slaughtered ... and they must take a few beats to ponder if they can live with this reality on their dinner plate . All of this take time.
Dan, the young man is trying to figure out stuff too. Dan is fairly a trying fellow, always reluctant to buckle down and do the back-breaking scutwork that comes with his territory, always trying to cut corners.
His realization that he may have meant something more than just an irritating colleague to limpid eyed Shiuli is a bit sudden.      
     

Space to get emotional

Not only are HSPs extra sensitive to environmental situation, they are also sensitive emotionally.

Extra sensitive to emotions
Dan after the trauma of Shiuli's fall

According to Dr Elaine Aron, author of The Highly Sensitive Person, sensitive people tend to cry more easily than others. She told the Huffington Post 
Sensitive people can't help but express what they're feeling. They show their anger, they show their happiness. Appreciating that is really important.
In our case Dan have not cried on screen but tries very hard to establish the meaning of Shiuli's last words before her fall
"Where is Dan ?"

Intimate and meaningful relationship

HSPs crave deep connections with others. In fact, according to Aron, they may get bored or restless in relationships that lack meaningful interaction. However, this does not mean they're prone to relationship hoping, Rather, they may actually work harder to strike up a meaningful conversation with their partner, create intimacy.
This also means HSPs tend to be selective about the people they let into their lives. A surface-level and give-and-take relationship will simply not cut it. An HSP wants to dive deep into the soul his/her selection and connect with him/her in a profound way.
Knowingly the fate of Shiuli after her accident Dan dives deep into her soul, to know her more and more in a profound way and act as a pillar for her survival mechanism.

Extra-Sensitive to Subtleties


Little rearrangement in room, remote talk in a gathering by a relative or colleagues, HSPs can sense many subtle shifts, whether they are tangible item or emotional talk. Aron says
"There's just this intuition they have about their environment that other people generally aren't aware of"
That intuition also guides them in their own relationships as well.
While haunting for the answer of the question
"Where is Dan?"
Dan finally took an extra ordinary step to offer Shiuli's love, the flower Shiuli Nyctanthes Arbor-Tritis. He places a handful of Shiuli in a manner that its aroma reaches to Shiuli who is sleeping deep in coma.
And it works Shiuli senses Shiuli and probably the heart of Dan.


HSPs do not mind to go solo


HSP's  functions best when they are in quieter environments - particularly in the workplace. They may also avoid group activities because they feel like their every move is scrutinized.
In several occasions Dan shows this trait in his job environment. After Shiuli's accident Dan is the regular visitor of Shiuli in the Hospital though other friends and colleagues are off. Dan makes and continues his solo presence in a bid to rouse his colleague from her vegetative state, despite ongoing warning to be fired from his job.

              

Outlet of Creativity


Many highly sensitive people have a strong need to create. They channel their poignant observations, insights and emotions into art, poetry, music and more. Deborah Ward, author of Overcoming Low Self-Esteem With Mindfulness writes
"Sensitivity can be overwhelming, but it is also like having extra RAM on my personal hard drive … Creativity is the pressure valve for all that accumulated emotional and sensory data.”              

A strong sense of purpose


Some people seem to drift through life without direction or purpose. For HSPs, this is unthinkable. Rather, they think deeply about the big things in life. Who are they, why are they here and what were they put on this planet to do?  Whether it is writing a novel, traveling the world, or leading the way for a cause they believe in, sensitive people crave meaning.

Loved Shiuli who understand and respect Dan's sensitive nature

Because most people are not highly sensitive, they simply don't understand what it's like to get very

Varun Dhawan and Banita Sandhu
Shiuli with Dan

stressed out by from a situation. But for HSP Dan need a person who truly understand his sensitivity, certainly Shiuli plays the role till her last breath.Shiuli protects Dan from over-stimulation. And Shiuli observes all the wonderful gifts that come with this rare trait of highly sensitive Dan.

Final Thought


HSP or not, our environment affects us. But for HSPs, the response is even more profound. For them, the way things look really matters. Cluttered, chaotic or just plain ugly environments may unsettle them. Beauty, love, understanding are the balm that rejuvenate and soothes.
The film October demands feeling from the viewers.
With feeling October can be watched several times.                             

When it comes down to it, Aron says the key sensitive people is to embrace their personality trait rather than work against it.
"Highly sensitive people make excellent leaders, friends and partners "
In other words - Keep on  experiencing those emotions HSPs - even if they do make us cry.   
On the film's perspective the overall catch is found on the two reactions :


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What happens When We Make A Wish

When We Make A Wish
We all live under the blessing of our own thought process. We sometime think life is like ice. We should enjoy it before it melts.
Photo by Richard Jaimes on Unsplash
I serendipitously standing in-front a temple wished for a guide. I found it. I desired for food, dreamt of good job, spouse, children, assistance, and all my dreams were fulfilled. One day I feared, what if I loose some of things I got. One day I had to resign from my job. Everything happened as I had willed. Was it my karma (destiny) or my thoughts that made my wishes come true?


Our Wishes and its Stand


We all live under the blessing of our own thought process. We sometime think life is like ice. We should enjoy it before it melts. But most of us seldom feel cheerful and fulfilled because we worry about inconsequential matters and thus sapping peace and pleasure out of our life. Many of us are very discontented and disgruntled, whining about everyone and everything around us. Under fear and worry, incapable of exploring our own immanent potential and savoring the splendor of life, we are busy cribbing about anything and everything. In such occasions, we don't spare even the Almighty, cursing Him for all the mess in our personal and public life. We become indifferent towards the good things around us. Blindly we compare our fate and fail to recognize our pattern of thoughts we carry in different situations.

Template of Our Life


Life actually comes as a package. If there are many pleasant features, there are many hideous and morbid aspects, as well. We will have to accept them cheerfully, just as we need to accept difficulties and problems. All such things together provide the template for testing out mettle for chiselling away our imperfections to enable us to gradually merge with the Supreme Being.
So all the dramatis personae in our life form an inalienable part of the cosmic drama with whom we share the 'Give and Take' account generated through present and past lives as per our karma. It is entirely up to us to make the best of a distressing situation.

Undying Nature of Thoughts


Swami Vivekananda asserted that each thoughts has a life and whatever one thinks even sitting in a Himalayan Cave is bound to happen. Even if a person fails to realize his/her thought in one lifetime, his/her prayers will take shape in some birth. One reads about law of persistence of force, law of conservation of energy, law of indestructibility of matter, so too mental activity, willing, and wishing cannot be destroyed.

Human Actions and Thoughts


Wishes forms samskaras in the mind. These wishes may take several births to come true and some may not bring happiness. Psychologists advise people to think positive and visualize their dreams coming true because positive thoughts help us in realizing our dreams. Sage Vasistha declared in Yoga Vasistha that human actions can overcome destiny. He instructs that by right thinking and discrimination cultivated by self efforts - one can achieve anything , even salvation.

Conclusion


Each human is given a chance to exercise free will to get liberation. With intense will power we can do anything that we dream about.
Have we ever paused to reflect on the bounty that God has blessed us with and how many of our wishes have been granted by him? Despite positive developments in our lives, we are dissatisfied if certain wishes are not fulfilled. We have our plans but the Almighty has His own plans. If things happen our way, we should be happy. But if they don't happen our way, we should be happier because they are happening God's way.

See how a true wish came true, when a mother wished a dream retirement scene in her life, which inspired me to write this article.                        

Hygge - Denmark - A show of Happiness

Intentional Intimacy

The ultimate urban playground for kids. Superkilen was designed by superstar architects Bjarke Ingels Group and arts group Superflex and opened in 2012. It celebrates the diverse nature of Nørrebro through design and artefacts from around the world. The park is divided into three main areas: Den Røde Plads (red square), Mimers Plads (black square) and The Green Market. Each plays its own role in creating a diverse playground for locals.
Photo by Sam Poullain on Unsplash
 

Denmark has been ranked as one of the happiest countries among the 155 countries surveyed, for the seventh consecutive year!

Evaluation of Happiness


Scientists generally argue about how to measure things, But when it comes to happiness (or 'subjective well-being' as they call it) a general consensus seems to have emerged. Depending on the scope and purpose of the research, happiness is often measured using objective indicators (data on crime, income, civic engagement and health) and subjective methods like asking people how frequently they experience positive and negative emotions.

Why do Danes evaluate their lives more positively ?


Yes, Danes have a stable government, low levels of public corruption and access to high-quality education and healthcare. The country does have highest taxes in the world, but the vast majority of Danes happily pay. They believe higher taxes can create a better society.

Hygge


Most importantly, however, they a cultural construct called hygge (pronounced 'hue-guh' with a hue as the first syllable).
The Oxford Dictionary added the word in June 2017 and it refers to high quality social interactions. Hygge can be used as a noun, adjective or verb. Events and place can also be hyggelise (hygge-like).
Intentinal Intimacy
Photo by Helena Lopes on Unsplash

Hygge can be translated as 'intentional intimacy', which can happen when we have safe, balanced and harmonious shared experiences. Instances that quality could include a cup or coffee with a friend, or a summer picnic on the park. A family might have a hygge evening that entails board games and treats or friends might get together for a causal dinner with good food and gossip. Spaces can also be described as hyggelige ( a new house is hyggeligt), A common wat of thanking a host after a dinner is to say that it was huggeligt ( meaning we had a good time).

The Basics


Research on hygge has found that in Denmark, it's integral to people's sense of well-being. It acts as a buffer against stress, while also creating a space to build camaraderie. In a highly individualized country like Denmark, hygge can promote egalitarianism and strengthen trust.

Hygge is fully integrated into the Danish cultural psyche. But it has also become a global phenomenon - Amazon now sells more than 900 books monthly on hygge and Instagram has over 3 millions posts with hashtag #huggie. Google trends data show a big jump in searches for hygge beginning in October 2016.

Many European cultures have a word for a concept similar to hygge - Norwegians have koselig, the Swedish mysig, the Dutch gezenlligheid and the German gemutlichjeit.

Social Factors in Happiness


The importance of social factors in happiness is emphasized in the happiness bulge in the data collected from Latin America. Happiness in this region is found to depend on the greater warmth of family and other social relationships and on the greater importance that people attach to these relationships.

In contrast, do India have any real cultural equivalent of hygge, especially in recent times, consequent with nuclearisation of family and urbanization of population? Progressively India have come to associate income with happiness. Yet even though the country's GDP has been rising, levels of happiness in India have been steadily decreasing. Same like situations are being observed in China also. Population of China and India and its subcontinent put together is almost one third of worlds population.

 What could be the reason for this ?


Income inequality is major issue. People are happier living in societies where there is less inequality in means of achieving happiness. There has also been a marked decrease in trust. Interpersonal trust, as well as trust in institutions, such as the Government and the media, is getting eroded rapidly. Most importantly, we ought to realize that more disposable income does not compare to having someone to rely on in a time of need.
Isn't it interesting to note that 95% of Danes believe they have someone to rely on in trying times ?

Final Thought

At the core, hygge is about building intimacy and trust with others. If the Danes can achieve such marvelous psychological benefit from a temporal interpersonal relationship. imagine the life-outcomes from establishing a pure, personal relationship with a spiritual being. This makes a strong case for urgently conveying to one and all, all over the world, the promise of Holy Mother Sri Sarada Devi 
"Know that you have at least a Mother, if none else"
Against the bulwark of this relationship, we could raise a social superstructure better than any that history has ever seen. 
   
           
                 

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