Henryk Goldszmit, his children and Dakghar (The Post office) - a curious link

 

Henryk Goldszmit

 Witnesses saw him marching forward with a young child's wrist in his hand, followed by the entire phalanx of his beloved orphans, dressed in their best costumes as if for an outing in the countryside.

Photo by Adrian Grycuk - Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0 pl, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=62908535

 

Overview

Henryk Goldszmit was a world-famous Polish-Jewish author of more than 20 children’s books, a renowned teacher and educator whose reputation was known throughout Europe and beyond. He was often called Pan Doktor (Mr. Doctor) or Stary Doktor (Old Doctor).

Yad Vashem in Israel is the famous memorial to holocaust victims and one is overwhelmed by the multitude of people from different parts of the world the Nazis gathered and killed mercilessly. There is a connection with this memorial with Henryk, a man from Poland.



Henryk Goldszmit
Henryk with his loved children


Henryk's Belief

 

Henryk was an extraordinarily gifted man. A scholar and writer, he was also a doctor and a human rights activist, especially an ardent children's rights advocate. In fact, children represented the very core of his passion. Though he went on to write more than twenty books and a thousand articles, his very first book questioned the way most parents rear their children. 

At a time when corporal punishment was acceptable for parents to inflict upon disobedient children, Korczak’s 1925 masterpiece, “The Child’s Right to Respect”, was published, read in many countries in translation from the original Polish, and for this unique book Janusz Korczak was awarded a literary prize. 

He believed, for instance, that for a father to foist his religion on his child, instead of letting him or her faith later when he or she turns an adult, was nothing short of ruinous brainwashing.


He studied medicine and became a pedestrian in a children's hospital in Warsaw. At the same time he wrote for several Polish publications and gained a literary reputation for his adopted pen name Janusz Korczak. For a while he served as a military doctor and studied in Germany but eventually veered to head an orphanage for Jewish children. He invited a close friend Stefania Wilczyńska , to be his assistant and set about creating a new kind of instruction for children.


Henryk Goldszmit

Photo by  Nieznany/unknown - Maria Falkowska, Kalendarz życia, działalności i twórczości Janusza Korczaka, "Nasza Księgarnia", Warszawa 1989, Domena publiczna, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=26777496



Henryk's orphanage Dom Sierot, was a children's republic, run entirely on democratic principles, where all decisions were collectively made through its parliament and court. Henryk even hired a novelist, Igor Newerly, as a secretary to help the orphans produce their newspaper. Which came out as a supplement to a Warsaw newspaper.

Maly Przeglad (Small Review) and it was attached to the week-end edition of Poland’s largest Jewish daily newspaper, printed in Polish, Nasz Przeglad (Our Review) read by thousands of Polish Jews every day.

The orphanage under Henryk's guidance became an independent small country all for the children.
 

 

Henryk Goldszmit

Photo by Anonymous - http://fcit.usf.edu/HOLOCAUST/KORCZAK/photos/naszdom/default.htm, Public Domain, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=4788925

 


In 1933 the Polish government bestowed upon him the Silver Cross of Polonia Restituta, (Reborn Poland).

Each year from 1934-1936 he traveled to Palestine and was immensely impressed with the kibbutzim and, in particular, with the special care given to young children following the ideas of which he had written.


In 1936 he was invited to move to Palestine either to practice pediatric medicine or to be a professor in the Hebrew University of Jerusalem. But Dr. Korczak refused the offer because he would not abandon the children in his orphanage.

 

All hell broke loose on 1st September 1939, as Hitler invaded Poland with thousands of  planes and  tanks. World War ll had begun. Within months the Gestapo created a small area as the Warsaw Ghetto and forced all Jews to move there. Henryk was compelled to move to a smaller building in the Ghetto with all about 192 (ot 196) children and 12 supporting staff including Henryk and Stephania

The Ghetto Warsaw

Britannica.com states that 


As part of Adolf Hitler’s “final solution” for ridding Europe of Jews, the Nazis established ghettos in areas under German control to confine Jews until they could be executed. The Warsaw ghetto, enclosed at first with barbed wire but later with a brick wall 10 feet (3 metres) high and 11 miles (18 km) long, comprised the old Jewish quarter of Warsaw. The Nazis herded Jews from surrounding areas into this district until by the summer of 1942 nearly 500,000 of them lived within its 840 acres (340 hectares); many had no housing at all, and those who did were crowded in at about nine people per room. Starvation and disease (especially typhus) killed thousands each month.

Beginning July 22, 1942, transfers to the death camp at Treblinka began at a rate of more than 5,000 Jews per day. Between July and September 1942, the Nazis shipped about 265,000 Jews from Warsaw to Treblinka. Only some 55,000 remained in the ghetto. As the deportations continued, despair gave way to a determination to resist. A newly formed group, the Jewish Fighting Organization (Żydowska Organizacja Bojowa; ŻOB), slowly took effective control of the ghetto.

 

 

Warsaw Ghetto

 

The Irony and His Attachment

 

The tragic irony was that Henryk himself was a skeptic, and didn't believe in Judaism. He had numerous opportunities to leave Poland before the German onslaught, just as his assistant Stephania had departed for Israel. But Henryk didn't want to go anywhere where he could not also take his children.


Now, with his children, he was cornered in the Ghetto, from which there were weekly shipments of people to the murderous death camps, gearing up their killing apparatus. Henryk knew his turn and the turn of his children would soon come. How could he prepare them? What message could he give children ranging from 3 to 13?


It was then that he took an astounding decision. He was abreast of European literature and the Nobel Prize probably brought Rabindranath Tagore's name to his attention. He decided that his children would stage Rabindranath's play, The Post Office, whose central character was an ill child AMAL, surrounded by other children, who struggles to fashion a world of his own.

 

Rabindranath Tagore
Rabindranath Tagore

The Post Office (Dak Ghar in Bengali)


niksen - The Art of Doing Nothing

The Art of Doing Nothing
niksen celebrates indolence, which may include just staring out the window, hanging out, listening to music, or looking at the sky
Photo by Thomas Kinto on Unsplash

Overview niksen


In our day to day activities, we act, try to act lot of things in order to live. Today world demands increasingly high speed and efficiency in every spheres of life. Many of us spend holidays with computers for various pending jobs, taking calls for follow ups, running place to place, which seem endless. However from ancient times to present world, people have tried different avenues to find time for happiness, few of them succeeded, many of us failed. First it was Wei Wu Wei - the idea of action through inaction, then the Danish concept hygge that made staying in and getting cozy cool that made staying in and getting cozy cool and Sweden's lagom which encourages living a balanced life. There are plenty of buzzy Nordic lifestyle methods that proponents claim will make us a better person, such as Slow Movement which is about slowing down the pace of life. This movement was started in 1986 by Carlo Petrini.  Now there is another European trend that's being embraced as away to combat our increasingly demanding and stressful lives : niksen. The Dutch concept is as simple as doing nothing.

In his novel La Lenteur (English - Slowness ) the french writer Milan Kundera warned us

When things happen too fast, nobody can be certain about anything at all, not even about himself.

There are several researches on this issue which indicate that an overly busy life is not healthy because it is frequently the cause of burnout, stress related issues, anxiety disorders, depression, sleeping disorders and heart-related problems.    

The Idea of Doing Nothing


The Italian's also have a concept for piddling around known as 'La Doice Far Niente' which means - the sweetness of doing nothing.

The art of doing nothing
Julia Roberts in Eat Pray Love

This concept is featured in Elizabeth Gilbert's masterpiece - Eat, Pray, Love, the other day. It is based on Gilbert's memoir, - a biographical romantic drama. One of the male character explains la doice far niente, he further adds Italians may wonder home after a few hours of working to take a little nap, they may be inspired by a nearby cafe and sit down to have a glass of wine, or they just go home and make love to their wife. Although it may be bit of unrealistic for most of us to just cut out of our jobs in the middle of the day to go take a nap. the scene is still compelling. The idea that 'doing nothing' is actually an event in and of itself. The idea that we no longer run on a treadmill of activity from getting the kids ready for school, to brushing our teeth, to conference calls, to picking up kids, fixing dinner and bed - only to start over again. The idea that our actions day to day become influenced by our instincts and no longer by routines, shoulds, and musts.
    

niksen - what is it ?


The Dutch concept of niksen or the art of doing nothing has become the buzzword in the American lexicon. Niksen has become enormously popular as an effective way to handle stress, burnout, anxiety and other stress-related ailments. Caroline Jansen, the best selling author of the book Niksen : The Dutch Art of Doing Nothing explains, niksen can be practiced by  anyone by slowing down and celebrating the
moment of not achieving
Essentially, the concept of niksen celebrates indolence, which may include just staring out the window, hanging out, listening to music, or looking at the sky. Niksen not only emphasizes us that it's all right to have periods of doing nothing but it also reminds us that purposely avoiding productivity is beneficial for our mental, emotional and physical well-being.

The Protestant work ethic has had a profound impact on the Dutch lifestyle so much so that the Dutch often feel pressured to fill their leisure time with productive and purposeful activities. The cultural bias against doing nothing is also emphasized in the Dutch language. For example, the popular proverb niksen is niks means
doing nothing is good for nothing

The Dutch worldview of being productive and avoiding indolence had a serious impact on many Dutch individuals. Several research findings show that many Dutch suffer from burnout, stress-related problems and the cases of anxiety are steadily on the rise.

The art of doing nothing
Niksen is about letting our mind go where it will without any kind of expectations
Photo by Andrew Neel on Unsplash
Contrary to the cultural orientation of hard work, productivity and aversion to indolence, the new mantra of niksen or doing nothing has become extremely popular in Netherlands. Niksen has been proven to be an antidote for stress and burnout. According to Carolien Hamming, a coach at CSR Centrum, an organization that teaches its member effective ways to deal with stress and burnout,
instead of constantly occupying your mind with what you need to do next or bouncing from one task to another, niksen is the practice of slowing it all down. It's welcome reprieve from societal expectations about work and productivity that permeates the culture.
Niksen is about letting our mind go where it will without any kind of expectations. Hamming points out
It's a form of mental resting (and) recuperation while you are awake.

However, before this Dutch concept of niksen there are historical evidence of practicing the idea pf doing nothing. The philosophers of ancient Greece and Rome regularly made the practice of doing nothing, the center of their lives. Philosophers from Schopenhauer to Bertrand Russel have also contemplated what it means to truly do nothing. The seventeenth century French mathematician and philosopher Blaise Pascal famously noted,
All the unhappiness of men arise from one simple fact that the cannot sit quietly in their chamber. 
Shinto Buddhists living in ancient city of Kyoto also believed in the philosophy of doing nothing. Their motto was
Don't just do something. Sit there.
A lot of us have the mindset that it's sin  to engage in idling, even our holiday time is all about "recharging" to help us survive in the world of work. The Dutch concept of doing nothing on the other hand exhorts us to drop out of the working world just for a little while.


Importance of niksen in our lives



Research findings consistently indicate that by being busy at all time, we are slowly but surely losing our ability to be still and do nothing because our brains are now wired to oppose any kind of effort to be inactive. According to Dr Sandi Mann, mental health practitioner and psychologist at the University of Central Lancashire and author of several books on mental health, even something like daydreaming makes us more creative and more efficient at problem-solving and better at coming up with innovative ideas. For Mann, for all this to happen, though, we need to be totally idle - doing nothing. Mann says,
Let the mind search for its own stimulation that's when you get the daydreaming and mind wandering, and that's when you're more likely to get the creativity.
For Mann niksen helps us to become still and when we become still it lets us see things with more clarity and depth.

While doing nothing may sound like a very simple idea. but when we are always busy and don't seem to have the time just to sit back and relax, it may not be easy just do nothing. Hamming says this is precisely why we need to practice niksen.
especially when it feels uncomfortable, (we) need much more niksen.

In her latest article The Case for Doing Nothing in The New York Times, Olga Mecking, a writer and a journalist, who lives in Netherlands, offers the following guidelines to practice niksen

  • Making Time - We must make time for nicksen and do it purposefully. We need to be mindful of when we are most productive and when our mind starts to shut off, losing our focus, and we start performing our tasks in a dull, monotonous way. This is when we must take a break and engage in doing nothing. It is good idea to focus on prioritizing the things that we find to be important and bring us joy. By focusing on the important parts of our life, we will find the motivation to build free time into our schedule.
        
the art of doing nothing
By focusing on the important parts of our life, we will find the motivation to build free time into our schedule.
Photo by Blake Barlow on Unsplash


  • Focus on Temperament  - We must  try hard to resist the temptation to be busy all the time. We should not feel guilty when we take breaks from work or go on holidays. If we feel guilty about being perceived as lazy then we need to think of niksen not as a sign of laziness but an important life skill.

  • Realistic Expectation  - We must be realistic about our expectations. Learning the skill of niksen requires patience, time and effort. So. if we find ourselves not being able to fully enhance the practice of niksen, we should not feel discouraged. Sitting still and doing nothing may be uncomfortable in the initial stages but with patience and practice we can learn.

  • Reorganize Surroundings  - We must reorganize our environment. Our surroundings have a major effect on how much niksen  we can embrace. We should have a space either at work or at home that is conductive of practising not doing anything. If, for example, our bedroom is filled with stuff from our office, like a computer, laptop, stationery, files and so on, we will be reminded of work, which may act as an impediment to idling.
      
Experimenting with different lifestyles to find the right one for us is also a key process towards the path of niksen. We live an age of constant distractions and nothing is more important than practising sitting still and doing nothing. Pico Iyer the author of niksen says,
You can go on vacation to Paris or Hawaii or New Orleans three months from now, and you will have a tremendous time. I'm sure. But if you want to come back feeling new - alive and full of fresh hope and in love with the world - I think the place to visit may be Nowhere.

Conclusion


The understanding of 'nothing' varies widely between cultures, especially between Western and Eastern cultures and philosophical traditions. For instance, Śūnyatā (emptiness), unlike "nothingness", is considered to be a state of mind in some forms of Buddhism (see Nirvana, mu, and Bodhi). Achieving nothing as a state of mind in this tradition allows one to be totally focused on a thought or activity at a level of intensity that they would not be able to achieve if they were consciously thinking. A classic example of this is an archer attempting to erase the mind and clear the thoughts to better focus on the shot. Some authors have pointed to similarities between the Buddhist conception of nothingness and the ideas of Martin Heidegger and existentialists like Sartre, although this connection has not been explicitly made by the philosophers themselves.

the art of doing nothing
Experimenting with different lifestyles to find the right one for us is also a key process towards the path of niksen
 Photo by Antonio Gabola on Unsplash


In some Eastern philosophies, the concept of "nothingness" is characterized by an egoless state of being in which one fully realizes one's own small part in the cosmos.
(Source : Wikipedia)
 
If we follow Iyer's advice and sit still and do nothing, we may be able to get closer to our senses, attaining a higher degree of clarity, harmony and joy that endures. I don't believe niksen or doing nothing is a luxury that is reserved for only the privileged. On the contrary it's a practice that is necessary for anyone who wishes to have a healthier, happier life. It's for all those folks who want to experience what the legendary Canadian singer, song writer and poet Leonard Cohen stated so movingly  that sitting still and doing nothing actually gets us
wide-awake, exhilarated, and pumping-hearted  as when you are in love

Henryk Goldszmit, his children and Dakghar (The Post office) - a curious link

   Witnesses saw him marching forward with a young child's wrist in his hand, followed by the entire phalanx of his beloved orphans,...